Comments on: 殯儀館．救護車 http://doctorfat.wordpress.com/2007/12/04/%e6%ae%af%e5%84%80%e9%a4%a8%ef%bc%8e%e6%95%91%e8%ad%b7%e8%bb%8a/ 與你細說有血有肉人的故事 Sat, 26 Dec 2009 05:39:29 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: luk868 http://doctorfat.wordpress.com/2007/12/04/%e6%ae%af%e5%84%80%e9%a4%a8%ef%bc%8e%e6%95%91%e8%ad%b7%e8%bb%8a/#comment-5156 luk868 Sat, 08 Dec 2007 08:41:53 +0000 http://doctorfat.wordpress.com/2007/12/04/%e6%ae%af%e5%84%80%e9%a4%a8%ef%bc%8e%e6%95%91%e8%ad%b7%e8%bb%8a/#comment-5156 看過不少你寫有關面對死亡和善終安排的文章, 不知可否讓我連列或引用? 本人是一個保險從業員. 看過不少你寫有關面對死亡和善終安排的文章, 不知可否讓我連列或引用? 本人是一個保險從業員.

]]> By: littleho http://doctorfat.wordpress.com/2007/12/04/%e6%ae%af%e5%84%80%e9%a4%a8%ef%bc%8e%e6%95%91%e8%ad%b7%e8%bb%8a/#comment-5138 littleho Thu, 06 Dec 2007 04:30:14 +0000 http://doctorfat.wordpress.com/2007/12/04/%e6%ae%af%e5%84%80%e9%a4%a8%ef%bc%8e%e6%95%91%e8%ad%b7%e8%bb%8a/#comment-5138 謝謝你的分享。 上週才知道大埔區的一位教會主任傳道在外國交通意外身亡，全教會立時「舉目無親」。上週也有會友的母親在老人院忽然要入院，短短個多小時就離世。我也每週在探一位住在老人院的癌病長者，見他太太日日照顧，奔波勞碌，但不知如何鑽入她丈夫的後事問題。 謝謝你的分享。
上週才知道大埔區的一位教會主任傳道在外國交通意外身亡，全教會立時「舉目無親」。上週也有會友的母親在老人院忽然要入院，短短個多小時就離世。我也每週在探一位住在老人院的癌病長者，見他太太日日照顧，奔波勞碌，但不知如何鑽入她丈夫的後事問題。

]]> By: KW http://doctorfat.wordpress.com/2007/12/04/%e6%ae%af%e5%84%80%e9%a4%a8%ef%bc%8e%e6%95%91%e8%ad%b7%e8%bb%8a/#comment-5130 KW Wed, 05 Dec 2007 15:37:45 +0000 http://doctorfat.wordpress.com/2007/12/04/%e6%ae%af%e5%84%80%e9%a4%a8%ef%bc%8e%e6%95%91%e8%ad%b7%e8%bb%8a/#comment-5130 Not everybody has courage to face death... it's an uncertainty for most people. For family members, it is not easy to accept the fact that their beloved one will leave them soon permanently. In my experience as a dentist working in senior homes, sometimes it is heartbreaking to see people with Alzheimer's slowly lose their memories until a point that they are not even able to recognize their family members. Some family members eventually abandon them since it is hard to take care of these people. Sometimes I feel that's even worse than dying.. Everyone will have their time for death. I recall a phrase saying, "today you're closer to death than yesterday". I observe a quite interesting paradox.. when you think about death, you'll also start to think about the meaning of your life at the present time... Not everybody has courage to face death… it’s an uncertainty for most people. For family members, it is not easy to accept the fact that their beloved one will leave them soon permanently. In my experience as a dentist working in senior homes, sometimes it is heartbreaking to see people with Alzheimer’s slowly lose their memories until a point that they are not even able to recognize their family members. Some family members eventually abandon them since it is hard to take care of these people. Sometimes I feel that’s even worse than dying..

Everyone will have their time for death. I recall a phrase saying, “today you’re closer to death than yesterday”. I observe a quite interesting paradox.. when you think about death, you’ll also start to think about the meaning of your life at the present time…

]]> By: 小如 http://doctorfat.wordpress.com/2007/12/04/%e6%ae%af%e5%84%80%e9%a4%a8%ef%bc%8e%e6%95%91%e8%ad%b7%e8%bb%8a/#comment-5128 小如 Wed, 05 Dec 2007 07:35:37 +0000 http://doctorfat.wordpress.com/2007/12/04/%e6%ae%af%e5%84%80%e9%a4%a8%ef%bc%8e%e6%95%91%e8%ad%b7%e8%bb%8a/#comment-5128 其實，這是很矛盾的問題。當知悉身邊的朋友患上癌症，無論是熟悉或不熟悉的，大部份人均會熱心顯上各種療法，希望那人能大步跨過。這是因為我們不是醫生，也不是病人自己，一般人看到的只是表面，不懂判斷病情的深淺，所做的只是人性表現出來的關心。每每病情轉危時，很多時候是短時間出現的變化，這往往令病人家屬和朋友的心變得更慌，更遑論可以像你們醫生那樣冷靜地關心病患者應如何走完人身最後一段路。無論如何，人與人之間的關懷是最美麗的，你們要繼續保持這顆愛心去工作，加油！ 其實，這是很矛盾的問題。當知悉身邊的朋友患上癌症，無論是熟悉或不熟悉的，大部份人均會熱心顯上各種療法，希望那人能大步跨過。這是因為我們不是醫生，也不是病人自己，一般人看到的只是表面，不懂判斷病情的深淺，所做的只是人性表現出來的關心。每每病情轉危時，很多時候是短時間出現的變化，這往往令病人家屬和朋友的心變得更慌，更遑論可以像你們醫生那樣冷靜地關心病患者應如何走完人身最後一段路。無論如何，人與人之間的關懷是最美麗的，你們要繼續保持這顆愛心去工作，加油！

]]> By: brownie http://doctorfat.wordpress.com/2007/12/04/%e6%ae%af%e5%84%80%e9%a4%a8%ef%bc%8e%e6%95%91%e8%ad%b7%e8%bb%8a/#comment-5126 brownie Wed, 05 Dec 2007 05:32:57 +0000 http://doctorfat.wordpress.com/2007/12/04/%e6%ae%af%e5%84%80%e9%a4%a8%ef%bc%8e%e6%95%91%e8%ad%b7%e8%bb%8a/#comment-5126 中國人對死亡的忌偎, 可以在同輩朋友中說出自己希望死後的安排,但是不敢向長輩前提出來. 其實通過電視/電影教育是很好的方法,但是這個題材也不會有很多人去做,也許香港電台的製作曾經做過, 但是播放的時段不是很多人可以看到. 其實好像捐贈器官也是一樣,做一些觸到人的心靈,有空間讓人思考的電視, 電影題材也不多..... 中國人對死亡的忌偎, 可以在同輩朋友中說出自己希望死後的安排,但是不敢向長輩前提出來. 其實通過電視/電影教育是很好的方法,但是這個題材也不會有很多人去做,也許香港電台的製作曾經做過, 但是播放的時段不是很多人可以看到.
其實好像捐贈器官也是一樣,做一些觸到人的心靈,有空間讓人思考的電視, 電影題材也不多…..

]]> By: 邦記 http://doctorfat.wordpress.com/2007/12/04/%e6%ae%af%e5%84%80%e9%a4%a8%ef%bc%8e%e6%95%91%e8%ad%b7%e8%bb%8a/#comment-5125 邦記 Wed, 05 Dec 2007 03:45:12 +0000 http://doctorfat.wordpress.com/2007/12/04/%e6%ae%af%e5%84%80%e9%a4%a8%ef%bc%8e%e6%95%91%e8%ad%b7%e8%bb%8a/#comment-5125 唉... 一年出入殯儀館多過十次, 主角有老有嫩, 確實幾令人沮喪...... 唉… 一年出入殯儀館多過十次, 主角有老有嫩, 確實幾令人沮喪……

]]> By: andy http://doctorfat.wordpress.com/2007/12/04/%e6%ae%af%e5%84%80%e9%a4%a8%ef%bc%8e%e6%95%91%e8%ad%b7%e8%bb%8a/#comment-5124 andy Wed, 05 Dec 2007 01:01:08 +0000 http://doctorfat.wordpress.com/2007/12/04/%e6%ae%af%e5%84%80%e9%a4%a8%ef%bc%8e%e6%95%91%e8%ad%b7%e8%bb%8a/#comment-5124 癌症真是奪去很多人的生命;你這篇文章令我想起近十年,自己很多的朋友和父親都因癌症而離開世界的.真令人傷感. 癌症真是奪去很多人的生命;你這篇文章令我想起近十年,自己很多的朋友和父親都因癌症而離開世界的.真令人傷感.

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